I’m getting married in 2 weeks. I’m very excited to start my life with my fiancee. But I’m nervous about the wedding night. Its going to be the first time for me an my fiancee.
I’m nervous that while were having sex, that I’m going to picture my dad. did you?and how did you get over it?
and also, what are some good ideas of things to do for him on the honeymoon?
my wedding night we were both so tired we just crashed.
If you are caught up in the moment of sexual excitement and love with your husband, you won’t be thinking of or picturing anything else.
bring a extra large box of condoms…your gonna need them…..
Seriously…It’s a long day and an even longer night. You’ll be lucky if you crash with your dress off. It was 4:00 am when we finally crawled into bed…we slept for 2 days straight and made up for it on our honeymoon.
Picture my dad when i was making love with my husband……….Eww no way…That would be a really strange thing to do lol.
Why would you even think of that lol.
Our wedding night was wonderful and we made love many times.
Go ahead and do it now. Take the pressure off of both you and your husband. The idea of two virgins on their honeymoon is a little comical.
It isn’t a real good time for experimentation.
I realize you won’t follow my advise so at least do this. Don’t travel too far after the wedding. That way, at least you will not be totally exhausted.
Don’t build up too much expectations, but you might get a book or two and at least do a little studying.
Still think you should do it now and get the worry over and done. If you are a virgin, you may experience a little discomfort the first time if he isn’t careful and with him being a virgin too, he likely won’t know what he is doing.
How old are you? Still a virgin? I thought they quit making that model several years ago.
I wouldn’t worry about picturing your dad…just try to stop thinking and worrying about it now and you probably won’t then. Just focus on your husband. Since it is your first time, make sure to go slow and “warm up” a bit before you begin the actual intercourse. And don’t put pressure on him or yourself as far as performance goes, just enjoy the moment and the intimacy you are sharing. Practice can come later. As far as things to do for him, it depends on what he likes. My husband’s favorite things are oral sex and outfits…but everyone is different.
Hope that helps.
Good for you for waiting until marriage! We waited too, and it’s worth it.
Make sure you buy lubricant. I personally like ‘Astroglide’. It is sold at Wal Mart, Kmart, pharmacies. You’ll be glad you did.
Don’t expect too much the first time, you might be disappointed due to the fact that you might be in pain (some are more than others).
Some women struggle sexually even later, if you have any concerns, please ask a trusted experienced person like doctor or friend, there could be easy solution, women tend to think something is wrong with them physically if it’s not everything they imagined.
I wish you many Blessings in your marriage!
give yourself to him totally (i.e. 3 holes no waiting)… and if you want anything in particular ASK HIM FOR IT… there’s no reason for you to go wanting either.