When I originally pictured my wedding I pictured an elegant but understated fitted lace dress. I found some I love but nothing was right and then I tried on this dress….

http://www.martinaliana.com/#/collection0910/260

It has a detachable skirt so it becomes a sweet little cocktail dress for the reception. I fell in love with it. But I’m very conflicted. This almost seems like a dress you’d wear to a big elegant wedding in a cathedral or something. Everything we’re doing is very fun and casual. The men are wearing tan suits. The girls are wearing sky blue dresses with chocolate sashes and crop sweaters to match.

I know it’s my wedding and I should stand out but I don’t want to be too flashy. I’m also worried about wearing a big skirted dress outdoors.

Any opinions/advice?