I asked my best friend to be my bridesmaid she said yes, however i had a destination wedding in FL. I understand that she couldnt get off from work to come to the wedding. However, she planned a trip the week before to Desting (near Pensacola). I gave her a good 8 months notice. What made me upset was that i had my reception a week after my wedding and she did not come to that either. Said she couldn’t get off from work. She sent no card or anything saying Congrats. She didnt even meet us out for drinks after the Reception (only 20 min away from her) Should I be hurt?
Well, my wedding was great inspite of it. She is single and i know she didn’t want me to get married but ironically she set me up with my now husband. I even offered to pay for her bridesmaid dress and hotel stay. I was not a bridzilla at all. My wedding was small and just family. She said I shouldn’t have planned my wedding on that date.