My husband and I are coming up on our one year wedding anniversary Saturday the 30th, and there’s so much going on that I just completely forgot until now.

We have a three month old son so I was busy planning his first father’s day.
Then right after father’s day we are taking a three week long road trip across country so I’ve been reserving hotel rooms and making packing lists for that.
And the week we come back from our trip is my husband’s birthday so I’ve been working on what to do for his birthday.

I’m sure I can get a babysitter for our son, no problem, my sister can watch him for a couple hours.

I love to cook and I’m constantly making his favorite foods, so “special dinners” just aren’t special anymore.

And unfortunately I can’t do any “sexy” surprises
I’m getting an IUD the day before our anniversary and the OBGYN (as well as several of my gal-pals) have all told me that I’ll probably be too sore to have sex for a couple of days.

I want to do something nice…its just that I’ve already exhausted all of my creative energy planning his first father’s day and this trip and his birthday
So any thoughts on what I can do or a gift I can give him would be greatly appreciated-
Kitty you are a judgemental witch-
I have given my husband oral sex everyday since the day we got married
and besides the three weeks after our son was born, my sexual appetite is higher than my husbands

by the way- we didn’t marry because we were pregnant, we got engaged and picked our wedding date BEFORE we got pregnant