My fiance wants to wear her wedding dress from her first marriange!! What to do!?
by techdude on Wednesday, July 28th, 2010 | 15 Comments
This is my first wedding, and this is her second.
She told me she wants to wear the wedding dress she wore to her first wedding, I know this is manily the bride day, and she gets to wear whatever she wants.
But come on!
Don’t I have a right to voice my view ON THIS!?
That is the tackiest thing I’ve ever heard!
If I was her fiance, I know I’d certainly be voicing my view!!
If I were you, I wouldn’t be overly pleased with
this either. Just let her know that it’s very strange
to you. She should understand if you explain why
you would really rather not have her wear that dress.
You definitely have a right. That’s a very bizarre thing
for her to want to wear it again.
It may be her day, but coming from a female, who thinks this is absolutley insanity, I wouldnt like it at all. I mean I may sound like a fool, but new beginnings, and things probably happened in that dress, so hell NO
Most likely this is a money issue. Those things are EXPENSIVE. If you are willing to foot the bill, ya, I’d say I want my new queen in a new dress, lets go looking. Before you open your mouth though, you better look online at what they run.
Hello there,
Congratulations on your wedding! That sounds so exciting!
They say that honesty is the best policy. A marriage MUST be built on trust and honesty. So, tell her how you feel. Don’t fight, just calmly explain what’s going on inside you. She probably just likes the dress. Why don’t you ask her why she wants to wear it, and how it makes you feel? Communication is the key to any relationship, especially marriage.
You’re going to be all right. That’s so exciting! Have a wonderful marriage and God bless.
tell her how u feel, she should listen
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um yeah she shouldn’t do that.
that’s just like a memory from her old marriage so it’s not right for her to wear it if she’s going to marry you now.
so yeah i’d say convince her to get a new one.
I would talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. Tell her that you know that’s what she wants, but you just feel a bit upset about it mainly because she wore it to a previous marriage. Ask her why she wants that one, and see if you can reason with her. Tell her it’s a new start, and she shouldn’t wear an old dress. MOST of all, don’t get mad, that’s no way to be! It is just a dress, but I can see where you’re coming from.
No you should Agree with Her for Her Happiness what Means More to you Your EGO or Her Happiness
first off, you forgot your third !. there i did it for you (its an ocd)
as long as she looks pretty in it, i say its fine. and maybe she took a long time looking for that dress and its the PERFECT one for her.
You must voice your opinion! Tell her how you feel. You can tell her you don’t want your wife-to-be wearing a dress from her previous wedding with her ex-husband! Also, it would make you uncomfortable to marry her. I’m thinking she still kept other things from her previous marriage that she shouldn’t.
Think about it this way. If you went to a football game or something you liked to do with a passion, and (sticking with the game) she stops the game and makes all the guys paint their nails and wear pink and start cheering instead of playing the game, would you REALLY want that? well you telling her she cant wear that dress is like that. ruining her day. besides, it costs less money that way.
Tell her about your ideas
http://www.ubrides.com/home.php?cat=774&catexp=774
Congratulations on your wedding! Be honest, tell she how’s feeling about this Case. I I believe she will agree with you and give up her idea. Because she loves you. New day, new dress and new life. I think she will shop a new wedding dress. It’s really such a importand day for both of you.
Good luck! Suggestion from Coral’s Bridal.