she emailed the rest of my bridal party including the groomsmen, and sent a long letter of their dutiies and how they need to buy their plan tickets early and to contact her for information. now the problem is that knowone knows her and most of these girls are my cousins. she is my closest friend but i dont think she should have introduced herself that way. the tone of the letter was very condescending and talking down to them like they are stupid. she has alot of money and can be very arrogant at times. im afraid that this will set a bad tone for my wedding and cause ill feelings amoung my bridal party. i thought she was going to just email them about what they were going to do about the shower, and only the bridesmaids! it was very demanding and i dont want the others to feel that way, especially when they are coming to georgia from jersey to be in the wedding. and i also told her my mother was handling the dresses and coordination of the bridal party, but she put in the email to contact her. and she emailed my mother without me knowing. my mother says she’s annoying and overbaring and likes attention. was i wrong for telling her she cant be in the wedding because it will just make my day uncomfortable and i dont want her trying to run my day and getting on everyones nerves.
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the term “kicking her out” is a little harsh. i think you just sit her down and talk to her and see what she thinks and talk to her about how shes making your family feel and everything. Dont not say anything because she might turn the wedding into something bad. But yeah just talk to her one on one to see whatsup and how you guys should deal with the situation
no cause she is trying to control ur wedding so i say tell her to shape up or she is out
Well I wouldn’t kick her out of the wedding. But I would tell her that from now on. You and your mom will handle everthing. Tell her that all she has to do is show up. I wouldn’t worry about her ruining anything because someone will set her straight if she is to bossy.
You did the right thing.
Call your bridesmaids and get things smoothed over if you haven’t already. Have your fiancee call the groomsmen. Tell them all to disregard any further correspondence from her.
First thing tomorrow, contact your vendors and the church. Make sure they know that any changes to your plans are to be made in person by you or your mother. I wouldn’t put it past Miss Fired MOH to try to derail your wedding.
Apparently you failed to communicate with her as to what her duties were. Why would she think she had to include travel details? Was it not made clear to her what her role was? Was this just dropped in her lap with no instruction? Maybe she’s overzealous but I don’t think so. Sounds like your party is very confused & that starts with you.
HELL NO! Hun, this is YOUR wedding not HER wedding. This is your special day and what your friend is doing is wrong. I think you should confront her on how you feel on what she’s doing. Cause at least before you kick her out she would know what’s the reason. Maybe she doesn’t know that its killing you that shes doing this. I hope you get this clear before your big day arrives. Good Luck!
IF someone came off like that to me in an email.. I would certainly kick her out of my wedding
good luck.
No i would have too! she would make me a bridezilla!
never assume anything when it comes to MOH . you should have told exactly what she was to do . I think she went and did her job like she thought she should have . I think some of your relatives are making more out of the e-mail than she was . You knew she was this way then why ask he ? Do you have a sister , or close cousin to be you MOH ? If you asked her to come back she may not .