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Am I right or is he………?

My family, hate my fiance, basically because he’s Latino and I’m white, they met him twice, once before and once after the engagement. And both times they were rude and racist toward him. They have told me they will not help with nor attend our wedding. But when I was writing the invitation list, my fiance has insisted I send my family invitations. My sister has already told me not to send anyone in the immediate family invites, because none of them are going to come. But he says I must still send them, even if they don’t come. I am enraged at the way they have treated him since the first day they met him, but he’s not even angry. And I’m annoyed at him for not being angry at them!
I don’t see the sense in paying for invitations I know they will throw away, we are paying for the wedding ourselves and I don’t want to waste money. Am I right? And why isn’t he more angry about it all?

What to wear to a wedding thats cute!?

I hate going to weddings because I never know what to wear! I’m about 5’11, 150 pounds, and wear about a size 8. I have no idea what to wear to this wedding the second weekend in September. Any ideas would be good. Please feel free to post links. I will give best answer to anyone that will help me find something. I prefer no strapless because I have like an A cup and can’t hold it up. haha. I hate open toed shoes…so I will most likely wear my black babydoll shoes…or buy new ones…so let me know what you find. You can make a whole outfit if you want…I want to be cost effficient but I dont have a exact limit as to what I will spend.

How much does it cost to have a wedding at the Rose Test Garden?

I am wondering what the cost is to have a wedding at the Rose Test Gardens in Portland Oregon. The website does not have the cost but it says that they hold weddings there. Has anyone had their ceremony there or know of the price? Thank you!

Instead of a reply date I want to leave my number… how can I word that?

Because the wedding is the end of this month I don’t think I have enough to wait for people to send a RSVP. So I would like to just leave my phone number so call me instead. I was having problems securing the church, and I didn’t want to send out invitations until I was certain. That’s why they are so late.

wedding invitations etiquette?

so this may sound very tacky but here it goes:

i am in the very early stages of planning my wedding and i am planning my invitation guest list.
in high school i dated the same guy (not my fiance) for two years we have been apart for a while and while he still has feelings for me i do not have them for him.
i love his mother very much though and have always told her that she would be invited to my wedding someday.
his father hates me however, and i do not like him much either.

so my questions are
a) is inviting her too tacky? she isn’t the type to make a scene and im fairly certain she would want to be there.

b) how do i word the invitation? my ex is not invited and i would like to not invite the father, but addressing it to only her is too politically incorrect isn’t it ?

HELP

totally lost planning my wedding!!!?

Ok so we have picked a date: August 21st 2010
We want something more casual and less traditional.
I do not want a big white dress….maybe white, but something summery and flowy not fancy and expensive.
We want it outside.
We want something small, 50 people max. just immediate family and close friends.
I want nice white chairs and colourful flowers.
Maybe one of those cute white arch things with flowers entwind into it.
We are NOT religious, but we do want someone to marry us, just nothing religious.
We plan to have a ceremony, and a potluck type BBQ or dinner afterwards.
Bring Your Own Booze
We do not want expensive wedding rings. No more than $300 each.

I am in desperate need of knowing how to go about planning this wedding!!! How much money do you estimate I will need to save up. I have about $2000 saved up already. We do not want to go over $5000, does that sound feesable? I’m so lost here!!!

Also everyone will be buying their own dress’s.
I live in Ontario Canada….just so everyone knows…incase you have suggestions on stores or locations!