I am in hell. My fiance and I are supposed to be married at the end of next month and now I dont know if there is even going to be a wedding at all, ever.
In one day I managed to get his friend and friend’s GF to hate me (by fight through emails) and I went to a family meeting (that mind you I wasnt invited to by the rest of the family; he invited) to find out that his sibling needs a new organ transplant and that they are looking for a living donor.
Which means the family is pressuring all the siblings to get tested and to give up their organ.
The thing is my fiance does not have health insurance and has no job. He has a learning disability that he has never dealt with and therefore cannot work a desk job. He can only do physical labor jobs. And I am still in college and have no money or savings. And in a few weeks we are supposed to be married. Now I am asked to just pretend this isnt a big deal. We have no money and he could die or get sick from having an organ removed…
Plus I could end up being responsible for his medical bills for the rest of my life right after we get married.
I am very upset. I dont know what to do. I can’t handle the stress of college plus worry about being stuck with a medically compromised person for the rest of my life when we were suppose to be starting our lives together. We arent established in careers with health insurance and savings. We are young, havent even lived together yet, and now after 5 years of being together everything is going away when there is only 1 month to my wedding.
I dont know what to say to him. I was wondering if anyone had a similar experience? How did you deal with it? Please no mean comments cause I cant take anymore today that I already have.
Yeah family does come first. Problem is he has made me think that he was ready to make ME his new family. When you choose a bride you leave your parents behind and concentrate on your new family. Yeah it is honorable to want to rush in and save the day for your family, but at what cost?